How To Deal With Difficult Situations

 We all face hardships in our life because life is not all about happiness and enjoyment. It is not perfect. It is bound to be imperfect so it have many ups and downs. But how to deal with that low situations? How to motivate ourself in that situation? 


Many of us deal with hardships in wrong way. As a result they end up being more emotionally broken. We think that running from or ignoring that situation will fix everything. If we will ignore that situation we will not be sad. But this is wrong!! Running from the problem is never the solution. It is just a temporary cure. Just like we numb our pain by using painkillers. It never heal our wound but just give us temporary releif to that pain. But when its effect goes, we feel pain again and sometimes of even higher intensity. This means that running from the situation can cause you more emotional damage. Its just keeping false hope. And false hope always results in hopelessness and eventually depression. False hope is like saying I cannot see the snake even if its right in front of you. What will happen? The snake will bite you and you will dye.


So the way out is not running from the situation or keeping false hope but facing the situation with a hope that one day it will pass. From a long time a line has been my motivation which is 

"This time too will pass"

So face the situation. Face the reality. Bring courage in yourself that it is the problem. But my Allah is with me He will give me patience and courage to deal with the situation.

So concluding, we can say that facing difficult situation involves two things : patience and hope  

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