Keep YourSelf A Priority

 Are you one of them for whom others are more important than themselves? Do you also often prioritize others because you think that you are not important? Then you are completely wrong!! 

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Majority of our problems arise because we don't value ourselves. We neglect ourselves a lot. If we want a happy and positive life, the first step is to know your importance. People who are not satisfied with themselves are more likely to be depressed than others because if you are not satisfied with your own self, then how could you be happy?? 

Here are some ways to prioritize yourself:

1. Learn To Say "NO":

I have discussed about saying no in my other blog about things you are doing wrong. But lets discuss some more about it. So its the first step towards taking care of yourself. This is because we often overburdened ourselves just because we don't feel good to say no. But we must think that it is my life. I can say no if i am not comfortable or if i am busy. there is  no shame in saying no because you have right over your life. 

2. Spend Some Time With Yourselves:

Although  we all have a very busy routine now a days but we often become stressed by the daily routine of life. And in this daily struggle we forget ourselves. So we should spare atleast one hour for ourself. Do whatever you want. watch a movie, go for a walk or even do nothing. but in this one hour just forget everything and try to be happy. It's like a self meditation that we all need .

3. Eat and Drink Good:

Taking care of your health is also as important as your mind. If you are not healthy then your mind will also be not healthy. So take good care of your diet and try to eat healthy. 

4. Learn To Back Yourself:

You should always keep motivating yourself. No matter if others value you or not, you must value yourself. Keep reminding yourself that you are doing great. Some ways of doing this are :

1. setting wallpaper as a positive quote

2. keep positive quotes on your study or work table

3. after each achievement try to celebrate it and gift something to yourself.

5. Gift Something To Yourself:

So the last point was really important so I thought to discuss it in detail. You should try to gift yourself something whenever you achieve something. Motivate yourself that you are doing great. Giving yourself a treat boasts up your spirit and you become more energetic to do the next task.

Always remember that you are the hero as well as villian of your life. You can make it beautiful but at the same time you can make it horrible. So chose wisely what you want to be. It will determine how your life would be.